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Kasey's Story

written by Marie



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i lost my  baby  daughter at  37 weeks pregnant,,  it  was  seven  years ago,  but  still sticks  in  my  mind  like  it  happened  yesterday..i  wasnt  feeling  very  good   a couple of  days before it  happened,  and  the scan  id a week before didnt  show anything was wrong, i woke up that day  to  see with  horror, blood  on  my duvet,, one of  my  legs  was  twice bigger  than  the other,  my  face swollen  and  puffy  and a  dull  ache  in  my  back, my  boyfriend was at  work ,so  foned  him to  come home straight home, took my other two  kids keeley  then  nearly 11,,  and kieron 2 to  my  mums,,  then  me  and  my  partner dashed  straight  to  hospital, i  did  a  urine  sample  for  the  nurse,  and she  put  me  on  a  moniter ,  the  nurse then  said   my  babys  heartbeat was  starting  to  fade  , and she  dashed  out brought  another doc  and  quickly took me  to have  an  ultrasound  scan...the  doctor  turned  to  us  several moments  later  and  said  im  very  sorry  your  baby  has  died,,  my  partner  and  i  just  broke  down  sobbing  we  couldnt  take  it  in both  just  holding  each  other  and  sobbing..i  was  then  taken  to  a  room  where i  was  hooked  up  to  drips etc,,my blood pressure was  sky  high ,  i  couldnt  even  talk  properly,,  after 13  hours  in labour  (she was  breach  as well) ,i gave birth  naturally,,  my  other  two  kids  were  born  by caesarian section,  i  named her  kasey she  weighed 3lb 10oz,,  and  looked  like  a  little doll ..the  vicar  came  in  to  bless  her and  she  was  by  my bedside  two  days  in  a moses  basket ,  before i  let  them  take  her to the  hospital  chapel of rest..the  day after  i  kissed  her  goodbye in shock  and  through blurred tears,  she  was  taken  away to  sheffield  for  a  post mortem  which  i  asked  for....the  cause  of  her  death  was a  blood clot behind  the  placenta,  which  the  doctors  didnt  detect on  the  scan  the  week  before,,  the  nurses  were lovely  and  did me  several  large  pictures  of  kasey  dressed   and surrounded by  lovely flowers,,  and  made me  a lovely  book  with  a lock  of  her,,  handprints  footprints  photos  etc,,and  the  hospital paid  for  the full  burial  and lovely little  headstone.. time  does  heal eventually and  not  a day goes  by  when  i  think of  her, nearly  a  year  later  i  had  another  child kurt  born 8 weeks  early by  ceasarian  weighing nearly  4lb  he  spent 2 weeks in  special care  before he  came  home,,  we  all  talk  about  her ,  and  they love  taking  flowers  to  the  church  yard for  her,,  saying  goodnight  godbless to  her...just  thought  id share  my story ..thanx marie

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